Showing posts with label change. Show all posts
Showing posts with label change. Show all posts

Sunday, January 22, 2012

Quote of the Week

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All change is not growth, as all movement is not forward.
                                                                                      Ellen Glasgow


Sunday, November 27, 2011

Quote of the Week

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"We did not change as we grew older; we just became more clearly ourselves.


 -- Lynn Hall

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Quote of the Week

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Today is not yesterday: we ourselves change; how can our works and thoughts, if they are always to be the fittest, continue always the same? Change, indeed is painful; yet ever needful; and if memory have its force and worth, so also has hope.


--Thomas Carlysle 

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

An Inheritance of Anger: The Oppressed Becomes the Oppressor

Turkey: Kurdish Youth Losing Faith in Peaceful Protests 

 

Friday, March 11, 2011

Quote of the Week

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All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.


--Anatole France 







Tuesday, November 30, 2010

TEN THINGS MEN CAN DO TO PREVENT GENDER VIOLENCE

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  • Approach gender violence as a MEN'S issue involving men of all ages and socioeconomic, racial and ethnic backgrounds. View men not only as perpetrators or possible offenders, but as empowered bystanders who can confront abusive peers. 

  • If  a brother, friend, classmate, or teammate is abusing his female partner -- or is disrespectful or abusive to girls and women in general -- don't look the other way. If you feel comfortable doing so, try to talk to him about it. Urge him to seek help. Or if you don't know what to do, consult a friend, a parent, a professor, or a counselor. DON'T REMAIN SILENT.

  • Have the courage to look inward. Question your own attitudes. Don't be defensive when something you do or say ends up hurting someone else. Try hard to understand how your own attitudes and actions might inadvertently perpetuate sexism and violence, and work toward changing them.

  • If you suspect that a woman close to you is being abused or has been sexually assaulted, gently ask if you can help.

  • If you are emotionally, psychologically, physically, or sexually abusive to women, or have been in the past, seek professional help NOW.

  • Be an ally to women who are working to end all forms of gender violence. Support the work of campus-based women's centers. Attend "Take Back the Night" rallies and other public events. Raise money for community-based rape crisis centers and battered women's shelters. If you belong to a team or fraternity, or another student group, organize a fundraiser.

  • Recognize and speak out against homophobia and gay-bashing. Discrimination and violence against lesbians and gays are wrong in and of themselves. This abuse also has direct links to sexism (eg. the sexual orientation of men who speak out against sexism is often questioned, a conscious or unconscious strategy intended to silence them. This is a key reason few men do so).

  • Attend programs, take courses, watch films, and read articles and books about multicultural masculinities, gender inequality, and the root causes of gender violence.  Educate yourself and others about how larger social forces affect the conflicts between individual men and women.

  • Don't fund sexism. Refuse to purchase any magazine, rent any video, subscribe to any Web site, or buy any music that portrays girls or women in a sexually degrading or abusive manner. Protest sexism in the media.

  • Mentor and teach young boys about how to be men in ways that don't involve degrading or abusing girls and women. Volunteer to work with gender violence prevention programs, including anti-sexist men's programs. Lead by example.





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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Istanbul...



...I'll be seeing you soon!



















We must never permit the voice of humanity
within us to be silenced. It is Man's sympathy with all creatures that first makes him a Man.

--Albert Schweitzer

Everything can be taken from a man or a woman but one thing: the last of human freedoms to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.


--Viktor E. Frankl